Hair Pulling and Skin Picking: the bear in the doorway

Good morning world,

Been a lot longer than I expected since my last blog entry – now it is time to catch up! I did a 7-day mindfulness retreat with Jon Kabat-Zinn, got my little book PEARLS – meditations on recovery from hair pulling and skin picking published (only available through TLC right now www.trich.org),  and just a few days ago got home from our 17th Annual TLC Conference in Dallas. Which was absolutely marvelous! 

 I have a lot of catch up today at work, but I wanted to share one of the meditations in PEARLS with you today.

 Here it is: This is page 129 I believe! 

Recognizing – and honoring – the bear in the doorway

Today I seek new pathways.

My trich was like a big Grizzly Bear:

bigger than me, able to swat me down, chew me up

and spit me out –

It beat me every time I engaged in the fight.

It stood in the “doorway” to all I wanted.

I have come to understand

that I had been focused on fighting my way –

THROUGH

Now I sit back; I no longer fight the bear.

I honor that the bear is bigger than me,

can outdo all my maneuvering.

I honor the bear; I no longer fight.

I simply open myself up to a new pathway

that the bear is not guarding.

There are pathways all around me!

I was too busy to see them before.

I am free.

And the bear sleeps in that doorway, long behind me.

  

~ It is easier to stay out than to get out ~

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

7 Comments

  1. cristina
    Posted May 8, 2010 at 9:15 am | Permalink

    Dear Christina,
    I’m looking forward to read your book! I’m in Italy: can I buy it in international bookstores, too?
    Thanks very much
    Cristina

    • tlctrichster
      Posted May 8, 2010 at 10:45 am | Permalink

      Dear Cristina, right now you need to buy it from TLC as it is not available elsewhere. We will be very happy to ship it to you, but I am guessing that postage would be quite a bit. Eventually it will be available through Amazon.com, etc., but not for a couple months. Love Christina

      • jacqgal
        Posted May 13, 2010 at 6:21 pm | Permalink

        Actually, it might only cost about $12 or so b/c since it weighs less than 4 lbs. it can be mailed via first class international. I just got the book, it’s great!

  2. jacqgal
    Posted May 13, 2010 at 6:22 pm | Permalink

    Also, please tell me how I can sign up for the weekly email from Christina? Thank you!

    • tlctrichster
      Posted May 23, 2010 at 7:19 am | Permalink

      Good morning! By next week it should be available on the website – but right now you need to call the TLC office and do it over the phone. Have a great day! Love C

  3. Winter
    Posted June 22, 2010 at 10:19 am | Permalink

    Christina,
    THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I bought this book the moment I read the above excerpt and I read a page every morning before I get out of bed. It’s so nice to have meditations that REALLY TRULY speak to ME! The emotions you described in the forwards were ones I have felt and it made me all the more excited because I knew that I would be able to understand and relate to the meditations and thoughts in the book. I can’t wait to read more!!!! Thank you again!!!
    Winter

    • tlctrichster
      Posted June 26, 2010 at 8:39 am | Permalink

      Sending you oodles of love! We really are in this together. Love Christina


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